the one to have up your sleeve

"Talk about-- how you don't like it." Because that much is clear, "Talk about-- how you'll want to Challenge like this less, if that's a plan you have. Talk about how it's still important for-- you especially to know these skills because just because you may not want to use them in the future doesn't mean others will, and knowing is how you-- keep yourself safe. Like how-- Outside, so many of them use guns because that's what they feel they need, to stay safe."